Maturity of Mind

*மன முதிர்ச்சி என்றால் என்ன?*

*What is Maturity of Mind ? *

1. மற்றவர்களை திருத்துவதை விட்டுவிட்டு
    நம்மை திருத்திக்கொள்வது.
1. Correcting ourselves without trying to correct others.

2. அனைவரையும் அப்படியே (குறைகளுடன்)
    ஏற்றுக்கொள்வது.
2. Accepting others with their short comings.

3. மற்றவர்களின் கருத்துக்களை அவர்கள்
கோணத்திலிருந்து புரிந்துகொள்ளுதல்.
3. Understanding the opinions of others from their perspectives.

4. எதை விட வேண்டுமோ அதை விட பழகிகொள்தல்.
4. Learning to leave what are to be avoided.

5. மற்றவர்களிடமிருந்து எதிர்பார்ப்பதை விடுதல்.
5. Leaving the expectations from others.

6. செய்வதை மன அமைதியுடன் செய்வது.
6. Doing whatever we do with peace of mind.

7. நம் புத்திசாலித்தனத்தை மற்றவர்களிடம்
    நிரூபிப்பதை விடுவது.
7. Avoiding to prove our intelligence on others.

8. நம் செயல்களை மற்றவர் ஏற்க வேண்டும்
என்ற நிலையை விடுதல்.
8. Avoiding the status that others should accept our actions.

9. மற்றவர்களுடன் நம்மை ஒப்பிடுவதை விடுதல்.
9. Avoiding the comparisons of ourselves with others.

10. எதற்குமே சஞ்சலப்படாமல் மனதை அமைதியாக வைத்துக்கொள்ள முயற்சித்தல்..
10. Trying to keep our peace in our mind
      without worrying for anything.

11. நம் அடிப்படை தேவைக்கும், நாம் அடைய
    விரும்புவற்றிற்கும் உள்ள வேறுபாட்டினை உணர்தல்.
11. Understanding the difference between the basic needs
      and what we want.

12. சந்தோசம் என்பது பொருள் சம்பந்தப்பட்டது அல்ல
     என்ற நிலையை அடைதல்.
12. Reaching the status that happiness is not connected
      with material things.

*இந்த 12 ல் குறைந்தது ஒரு ஏழெட்டையாவது கடைபிடிக்க முயற்சித்தால் வாழ்க்கை எளிதாகிவிடும்*
*Our life will be simple if only we practice 7 or 8 of the above 12*

Live your Life & Love your Life.

Murdering English*

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                 *Murdering English*
              
🌀 *From  Administrative  Deptt.*   
*Bengaluru in 1996 :*                                               As my mother-in-law has expired and *I m the only one responsible for it,* Please grant me 10 days leave.

🌀 *Maharashtra in 2005:*
"Since I have to go to my village *to sell my land along with my wife,*
please sanction me one-week leave."
_________________________
🌀 *Jharkhand in 2000*
From an employee who was performing the "mundan" ceremony of his 10 year old son:
*As I want to cut my son's head  in Gaya, please leave me for two days..*
_________________________
🌀Leave Application from an employee who was performing his daughter's wedding in Hyderabad in 1996 :
*As I am marrying my daughter, please grant a week's leave..*
_________________________
🌀 *From another Administration Dept,Gujarat in 2007:*
🌀An employee applied for half-day leave as follows:
"Since I've to *go to the cremation ground at 10 o'clock and I may not return,* please grant me half day casual leave"
_________________________
🌀 *Another leave application found in Bihar in the year 2005*
I am suffering from fever, please *declare one-day holiday for me.*
_________________________
🌀A leave application to a Principal in *Jamshedpur in 2006*:
"As I am studying in this school I am *suffering from headache and the headache is paining,* Please grant me one day leave
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🌀Leave application found in *Kolkata in 2014*:
"My wife is suffering from sickness and as *I am her only husband at home* I may be granted leave".
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🌍 *Another seen on the cover note while applying for a job in 1999:*
"Dear Sir, with reference to the above employment circular number, *Please refer to my bottom.*
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😤Another funny Letter found in *Bhubaneswar in 2016*:
"I am well here and *hope you are also in the same well.*

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Beautiful message

Such a beautiful message ...worth reading😍😍!!!

I was jogging this morning and I noticed a person about half a km ahead.

I could guess he was running a little slower than me and that made me feel good, I said to myself I will try catch up with him.

So I started running faster and faster. Every block, I was gaining on him a little bit.

After just a few minutes I was only about 100 feet behind him, so I really picked up the pace and pushed myself. I was determined to catch up with him.

Finally, I did it! I caught up and passed him. Inwardly I felt very good. "I beat him".

Of course, he didn't even know we were racing.

After I passed him, I realized I had been so focused on competing against him that .....

I had missed my turn to my house,

I had missed the focus on my inner peace,

I missed to see the beauty of greenery around,

I missed to do my inner soul searching meditation,
and
in the needless hurry stumbled and slipped twice or thrice and might have hit the sidewalk and broken a limb.

It then dawned on me, isn't that what happens in life when we focus on competing with
co-workers, neighbours,
friends,  family, trying to outdo them or trying to prove that we are more successful or more important and in the bargain
we miss on our happiness within our own surroundings?

We spend our time and energy running after them and we miss out on our own paths to our given destination.

The problem with unhealthy competition is that it's a never ending cycle.

There will always be somebody ahead of you,
someone with a better job,
nicer car,
more money in the bank,
more education,
a prettier wife,
a more handsome husband,
better behaved children,
better circumstances and
better conditions etc.

But one important realisation is that
You can be the best that you can be, when you are not competing with anyone.

Some people are insecure because they pay too much attention to
what others are,
where others are going,
wearing and driving, what others are talking. 

Take whatever you have,
the height, the weight and personality. 
Accept it and realize, that you are blessed. Stay focused and live a healthy life.

*There is no competition in Destiny. Each has his own.*

_Comparison AND Competition  is the thief of JOY. It kills the Joy of Living your Own Life._

*Run your own Race that leads to Peaceful, Happy Steady Life.* ☀

INSTALL HUSBAND :

👇Fantastic post !! Read it and laugh out loud !!😃😃😃😃

HOW TO INSTALL HUSBAND :

A woman writes to the IT Technical support Guy :-

Dear Tech Support,
Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and I noticed a distinct slowdown in the overall system performance. This is particularly in the flower and jewellery applications, which operated flawlessly under Boyfriend 5.0!

In addition, Husband 1.0 uninstalled another
valuable program, Romance 9.5, and then installed undesirable programs such as NEWS 5.0, MONEY 3.0 and CRICKET 4.1

What can I do?
Rgds
Xxxx

Reply :

Dear Madam,
First, keep in mind, Boyfriend 5.0 is an Entertainment  Package, while Husband 1.0 is an operating system.

Please enter command- ithoughtyoulovedme.html and try to download Tears 6.2 , then only it will automatically run the applications Jewellery 2.0 and Flowers 3.5

However, remember, overuse of the above application can cause Husband 1.0 to default to Silence 2.5 , Beer 6.1 or Whisky 6.8

Also DO NOT disturb the original package of Husband 1.0 Otherwise new virus Girlfriend 2.5 will automatically be downloaded into your system.
So please be careful!

In addition, please do not attempt to reinstall the Boyfriend 5.0 program.
These are unsupported applications and will crash Husband 1.0

We recommend: Cooking 3.0

Good Luck Madam !
Rgds
Xxxx
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Email and Gmail

I thought I knew English until I heard my neighbour explaining the difference between Email and Gmail,
(1)Email - the mails which are sent using Electricity
(2)Gmail -the mails which are sent using a Generator

I swear I’m going to get my school fees back
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What is Success

What is Success?

1 year old ...* *Success is.*
Can walk without support

*4 years old...* *Success is.*
Do not urinate in your pants,

*8 years old...* *Success is..*
To know the way back home.

*12 years old,* *success is..*
To have friends.

*18 years old ,* *success is.*
To get a driving license.

*23 years,* *success is.*
To graduate from a university.

*25 years old,* *success is.*
To get an earning.

*30 years old,* *success is.*
To be a family Man.

*35 years old,* *success is.*
To make money.

*45 years old,* *success is.*
To maintain the appearance of a young man.

*50 years old,* *success is.*
To provide good education for your children.

*55 years old,* *success is.*
To still be able to perform your duties well.

*60 years old,* *success.*
To still be able to keep driving license.

*65 years old,* *success is.*
To live without disease.

*70 years old,* *success is.*
Not to be a burden on any one.

*75 years old,* *success is.*
To have old friends.

*81 years old,* *success is.*
To know the way back home.

*86 years old,* *success is.*
Not to urinate in your pants again.

90 years old...* *Success is.*
That you can walk without support again

One of the best messages I have ever read.

Life is a cycle.! Dont expect too much from it. Be simple, cool and happy always.

Mental Aptitude

*Mental Aptitude Test* 
                *Pretty Amazing*

The following was developed as a mental age assessment by the School of Psychiatry, at Harvard University.
Take your time and see if you can read each line aloud without a mistake.
The average person _over 58 years of age_ cannot do it!

1.   This is this cat.
2.   This is is cat.
3.   This is how cat.
4.   This is to cat.
5.   This is keep cat.
6.   This is an cat.
7.   This is old cat.
8.   This is fool cat.
9.   This is busy cat.
10. This is for cat.
11. This is forty cat.
12. This is seconds cat.

Now go back and read _the third word_ in each line from the top down, and I bet you, cannot resist passing it on...

I couldn't resist. 😜😀😜

Selling Chairs

Today Morning I heard someone shouting loudly in my society stating...

If you invest ₹ 250 only once, you can sit and eat for rest of the life.

I went out with curiosity only to find out that.......

The Idiot was Selling Chairs

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